i know i know, im like 10 years late

So im curious whats out there thats similiar to that - graphics arent the most important thing, gameplay is
Ive watched quite a phew videos of freespace and it looks pretty cool so i have to ask a phew things
- Is there third person views, ive yet to see videos out of the cockpit. and now, i understand this is a piloting view that people love. but its just not for me, i need to see my ship, or battleship, or capital as im flying and fighting. another thing i loved about X3 was the auto attack system
- There is alot of mods out there, if i did buy the game, id need advice on what mods would suit me.
- Should i get freespace 2 or both if i was to get one of them
- Can you fly capitals - important to me. i love big ships and guns
Basically im most interested in single player because sometimes i play these games on my laptop when im away. but i dont mind multiplayer for my home pc either, the only thing that i couldnt stand about freelancer online. was most servers had strict "RP" Rules, were you had to get permission and rp roles for certain ships. i like freedom, to choose my own path, ship, and way of life in space