Goober5000 wrote:I used to be against distributing condoms to AIDS-ridden countries on the grounds that it gave tacit approval to sexual promiscuity. Though I've never agreed with those who lie about condom's effectiveness (whatever that effectiveness may be) to achieve that end.
However I've since come around to the position that the two treatments aren't mutually exclusive. One problem (AIDS) is a symptom; the other (promiscuity) is a cause; but to battle one while ignoring the other isn't right. Both are proper and appropriate ministrations of grace.
No one has ever said we should ignore promiscuity. I'm not for vilifying it but I'm all for warning of the dangers of it.
Sex ed shouldn't say "Go f**k as much as you want cause condoms will keep you safe" any more than it should say "Don't f**k at all" and write off anyone who does.
What it should do is present people with the facts. It should explain that even with condoms there is a risk (albeit MUCH smaller than the vatican claimed) and that having less partners does reduce that risk.
Let people make an informed choice. You shouldn't dictate to them.
Top Gun wrote: Bottom line: the Pope did not lie.
boll##ks. When it is the Vatican's official policy is to make these claims in support of their arguments and the pope lets it slide he becomes responsible for their effects. Or are you now going to claim that the pope didn't know that his own government had this official policy? Cause that's the only defense you have. If he knew and he didn't stop it then he's guilty. He might not personally have lied but that's just like a politician always getting his spokesman to lie for him.
Top Gun wrote: Before you immediately get up in arms, consider this: do you really think that distributing millions of condoms to Africans will bring about any immediate change in their lifestyle? I, for one, do not; if people living in Africa are reassured that condoms will protect them against AIDS, they'll simply continue the same high-risk activities that have caused the AIDS virus to spread so rapidly.
And the spread would be retarded by the use of condoms. Just like it was retarded in every single western country. Do you think people are engaging in less casual sex now than in the 80s in the UK and USA? I doubt it. The drop in AIDS cases from the start of the epidemic is due to the use of condoms not due to any huge shifts in behaviour.
Top Gun wrote: Are you telling me that we should encourage people at risk for AIDS to play what amounts to Russian Roulette? Karajorma, are you telling me you honestly believe that handing out a method of birth control with a 30% effectiveness will really help the people of Africa? That's just callousness. Would you entrust your life to an airline with a 30% effective rate?
If I've decided I'm going to fly inspite of the risks I'm
definately going to fly the 30% airline in favour of the 0% chance of survival airline. You've basically put the 30% airline out of business and said that "If you want to fly you have to take the one that will kill you"
And remember that the 30% figure was just a figure pulled out of my arse in order to make a point. Condoms are much more effective than that.
There are many people who have married and had full sex lives with AIDS infected people.
Top Gun wrote:Regardless of any of that, however, the Vatican cannot and should not promote condom use. Its use is a direct violation of Catholic doctrine about sexual morality.
Stop making this point. It only displays the fact that you're either not reading my arguments, too forgetful to remember them or are completely unable to comprehend them. Feel free to take your pick as to which one it is as I have already stated several times that I'm not saying that the Vatican has to promote the use of condoms and yet you keep arguing that it has the right not to.
The catholic church can preach whatever it likes about the moral and spiritual effects of using condoms. But there is no passage in the bible that states their effectiveness against AIDS so that is
NOT a religious matter.
If you want people to stop having sex you can preach to them that they will go to hell to it all you like. I may disagree with you on it and think that you're foolish for believeing that but I defend your right to do it.
What you can't do is lie about the consequences of sex in order to get what you want. You can't claim that having sex will stop the rains coming. You can't claim that it will mean that you use up all your male sperm and then can only have girls when you marry. And you can't publish false and heavily flawed, biased faux-scientific work claiming that condoms don't prevent AIDS.
The ends do not justify the means. If you can't pursuade people not to have sex for purely spiritual reasons then the flaw in in your spiritual beliefs or your teaching of them.
What makes this especially disgusting is to hear lies and untruths like this coming out of the mouths of supposedly holy men who claim to represent God's word on Earth.
Top Gun wrote:How does the Church discouraging condom use kill millions?
If I hand you a gun and tell you it's not loaded and you pick it up and shoot your kid dead am I not in part responsible for telling you it wasn't loaded? SUre you may bear the responsibility for not checking for yourself before whatever stupidity resulted in the shooting but I would also be responsible for telling you that it was safe in the first place.
Similarly if the church tells people not to use condoms because they don't work then they are responsible for those people who would otherwise have used one. Their promiscuity may also be responsible but the church is responsible because but for their actions those people would have used condoms and would have survived.
NB This is absolutely not the same thing as if the Church had simply said wear condoms and you go to hell. The difference here is a spiritual one. If you're stupid enough to believe that wearing a condom will send you to hell but that having sex which also carries the same penalty is okay then you really bear the responsibilty for your own stupidity. If you were going to risk going to hell wear a damn condom and avoid getting AIDS while you're having illicit sex.[/b]